Don’t tell a narcissist anything personal, they’ll use it against you and think they are entitled to do so. They will not honor your boundaries and they are good at exploiting your weaknesses even though they can’t get their own life in order. Because they have such a low self esteem it makes them feel powerful when they can put you down and manipulate you. Their critical spirit blinds them. Jude tells us that those who have a critical spirit do not have the Holy Spirit. Avoid the narcissist at all costs.