When someone comes to you who has a gender identity problem, don’t hate them, and yet in no way support it. Use the opportunity to win them to Messiah. It doesn’t mean you will win them. And it doesn’t mean you have to coddle them, quite the contrary. Direct them to the truth in a loving manner. Then, let the Holy Spirit do the rest. All we can do is either plant seeds or water them. The Ruach does the rest, leave it at that. Scripture shows that those who are in the faith do not judge the world. Elohim does that. Judgement only resides in the household of faith among the Ekklesia.